Sure, objectively speaking, if we want to avoid any harm or weirdness to ourselves from the "cost", that's true. But that's also ignoring that the stuff we avoid might get dished out to people we maybe don't want to stack up extra bad stuff on, that getting zero will probably mean missing out on another vision for those of us who're interested, and that the other Families will be able to see us being that self-prioritising.
Re: DISCUSSION
Sure, objectively speaking, if we want to avoid any harm or weirdness to ourselves from the "cost", that's true. But that's also ignoring that the stuff we avoid might get dished out to people we maybe don't want to stack up extra bad stuff on, that getting zero will probably mean missing out on another vision for those of us who're interested, and that the other Families will be able to see us being that self-prioritising.