I see sense in both courses of action. And I'm also open to both.

If the question were just, "Will you sacrifice people you don't care about for those that you do," you and I would be fully agreed. I'd have no hesitation in making that choice.

But there are as many people I care about outside this room as there are within it. My allegiances are to people, not Families -- not even my own. And of the two... I have more faith in your ability to "tank a car" than I do Aster's or Snowdrop's.