unlimitedtimeoff: (* 071)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] unlimitedtimeoff 2025-07-14 05:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Will also say... thing about Sun Sign is that it's actually that we don't just walk and leave it all behind. That'd be ideal, but it ain't always possible.

More accurate is probably... we meet each other where we're at. And if you need to stop for a bit, then you stop. Rest the feet, get new shoes, whatever.

No one's gonna force someone to walk ahead if they're not ready to. Everyone at their own pace. Like that.

There's no right or wrong way to do it. That's kinda the whole deal, but some people struggle having open options like that, at first, and that's fine, too.
Edited 2025-07-14 17:05 (UTC)
vitainmorte: art by @ sabimillia (locked in a cage)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] vitainmorte 2025-07-14 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
[ she's quiet, for a long moment. ]

...

I don't-- want to be left behind. I'm already so far behind.
unlimitedtimeoff: (* 156)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] unlimitedtimeoff 2025-07-14 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not behind. You're where you're at and you got reasons for being where you're at.

If you're feeling pressured to be some place other than where you're at by someone here, tell them to either fuck off or help.
vitainmorte: (You are absent of cause)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] vitainmorte 2025-07-14 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I'm not, I just...

...

I can't... ask them to wait for me, when they need to keep moving too. It isn't fair for them to have to keep pace with someone lagging in the back no matter what I might want. So I'm just-- trying to catch up.
unlimitedtimeoff: (* 098)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] unlimitedtimeoff 2025-07-14 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's the thing.

Don't you think it's their choice if they want to stop and wait?
vitainmorte: (You're beautiful)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] vitainmorte 2025-07-14 06:14 pm (UTC)(link)
They won't. I know they won't.
unlimitedtimeoff: (* 054)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] unlimitedtimeoff 2025-07-14 06:15 pm (UTC)(link)
If my friend had asked me to wait, in those visions of mine, I woulda.

He didn't.

And it all ended real bad.

But in the end, it's your choice to ask just like it was his.

[+coffee, +herbs whomp whomp]

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] vitainmorte 2025-07-14 06:27 pm (UTC)(link)
[



SO IT'S ALL MY FAULT!!!!!!!! JUST AS I SUSPECTED!!

hides her face in the bean bag again ]
unlimitedtimeoff: (* 155)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] unlimitedtimeoff 2025-07-14 06:29 pm (UTC)(link)
[oh my god, you two are the same picture, he swears.

FLUFFING AND RUFFLING HER HAIR]
vitainmorte: (it's a pointless resistance for you.)

Re: okay done. sorry

[personal profile] vitainmorte 2025-07-14 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
[ she whines a bit but. just accepts it ]